It's been a while since I took the opportunity to update my blog. I guess I've been trying to avoid thinking as much recently and therefore, the need to write has subsided.
Over the course of the last months, things have changed a lot. Settled into my new job and enjoying it, cut ties with my previous employer and the only two people I care about are either leaving or looking to leave.
I've learnt a lot about myself in the last year and more so, a lot about attachment theory. Here we all are, writing our thoughts down and wondering what other people with think of our lives when reading what we've constructed. Attachment theory is interesting shit. It denotes everyone's preference for how we interact as a species and how and why we become attached to certain attachment figures.
The older I get, the more attached I become to people. I'm intrigued to know how other people feel about those they are attached to and why they are attached.
Anyone got any thoughts?
kath84
surely we become attached to people because they provide us with something. obviously we form different kinds of attachments with the different people in our lives. i'm starting to think that's why we can be very different people depending on who we are with. the more emotionally fragile/intense the attachment, the more intense the behaviour, and so on.